Those who knew Pat, Alan and Kay
know that they were always looking
for opportunities to help others.
Let others know how they affected
your lives by sharing your stories
and commenting on this post.
We loved them and will miss them.
know that they were always looking
for opportunities to help others.
Let others know how they affected
your lives by sharing your stories
and commenting on this post.
We loved them and will miss them.
71 comments:
staciehgiddens said...
Pat - your kindness, patience and talent will be missed greatly. You made every occassion more special with your wonderful creations. I am so thankful to have known you and will remember you always.
Jan in Tulsa said...
Pat was such an inspiration and encouragement to me. She visited us a few years ago and taught my daughter some basics of cake decorating. Michelle and I talked about her just the other day as we were decorating our gingerbread house. Alan welcomed me in their home when I visited one weekend a few years ago, and I have always remembered his kindness. They will always have a special place in my heart, and I look forward to enjoying eternity with them.
~Jan Tabrizi~ Tulsa, OK
December 28, 2009 8:01 PM
Ellen said...
For a few months about 5 years ago, Pat gave me an opportunity to help her in her cake making busuness! I learned all I could to help her out that summer..lots of cakes, icing, decorating. I had some really great times with her, and some also with Alan and Devin. Even was there that Christmas to help her prepare and serve at their yearly Christmas party! Ellen Livingston
Denton, TX
Alan helped with the Bell Choir at FBC for a while..a marvelous musician and a delightful personality.
They will be missed! But Heaven is rejoicing as they have arrived at their real HOME!
I knew Pat from the Sound Options Pregnancy Services. I helped train her for the counselors ministry. She did an awesome job ministering to the girls coming through the Center. We had many talks about our families. She loved you all so very much! We spent every Tues. p.m. together and got to know each other pretty well. I will miss her very much.
Our Bunko group of 12 ladies will never be the same without her. It was always fun when the 3 "Patricias" were at the same table. I will miss her sweet spirit, her words of wisdom, her fun nature, their annual Christmas party, and her lemon cake on my birthday. I know she and Alan are dancing with delight with our Lord and Saviour, but those of us who remain here are left with a great void. Our lives were impacted by them in so many ways. I am SO glad to have had the privilege of knowing them and attending church with them these past 10 years. What a witness for Christ they both were!
Trish Harrison
Ovilla, Texas
I loved that Pat was always ready to be Christ's hands, feet and mouth here on earth--whether it was at Living Choice, answering the questions for those who were seeking the Lord through the CCC website, making music with the bells, or helping to make a couple's wedding just perfect. She made our daughter's beautiful wedding cake and Alan played the trumpet for the processional. My last converstation with Alan revealed his passion for worshiping the Lord with music--certainly what He equips us for on earth will be used in heaven, so Alan must be ecstatic at being able to participate in the continual praise service there! Their lives graced our lives and we will miss them!
Ginny Dyson
Desoto, TX
The first thing anyone would notice about Pat would be her smile! I have been trying to picture Pat running into the arms of the Lord...who would have the biggest smile! I am thinking PAT! Monk and Neagle says it all...You had love for your family. Love for all people. Love for the Father, and Son. Your heart will be heard in your unspoken words through generations to come. There is so much that I don't understand but I know you're dancing with the angels...walking in new life.Heaven fills your eyes. Pat's smile will always be in my heart and mind. Jenny Danna
I was just really learning so much from Alan in our Life Group and Pat taught me so much of what a servant's heart is all about. I was thinking about you two as I was getting up this morning and realized how committed you two were in serving our Lord in every aspect of your life. Through your dancing, Crisis Pregnancy, Life Group, Bible Studies, the first time I met you at your home for a Moms In Touch meeting, your open houses at Christmas, but most of all your love for your children and family. I will greatly miss you two and know that you are both rejoicing with Jesus and can't wait to here Alan tell me all that he has learned once I get to see him in heaven. Thank you for your friendship and prayers, I will miss you both.
In Him,
Jeani Miles
I was saddened to hear about the passing of the Wilbourns and Ms. Nelson. But, at the same time, glad to know that they are together in the arms of the Lord.
"Mrs. Pat" was really a member of our family, because her cakes have been a part of every celebration for many years. I think God lets us all spread love in many different ways, and Pat's way was through her delicious cakes.
May God bless the family through this difficult time. Please take comfort in knowing that you will see them again one day.
Alan I truly enjoyed our "political" conversations and learned much from you. Pat I loved to see how excited you looked when talking about the two of you dancing. I did not know you for very long, but your love for serving God and loving each other will be a memory that will always be with me!
Thank you....Linda Butts
Trey and Malea
We are praying for you during this time. Our hearts go out to your family.
Chris and Charlotte Sherwood
Celina, Texas
I met Pat at a Dallas First Church Precepts Bible Sudy several years ago. She was dedicated in her study of the Bible and was a real inspiration to me. Barbara Morrison, DeSoto, TX
I didn't know Pat well - we went to high school together but I did have occasion to enjoy her at the South Oak Cliff Salado reunions. She brought fabulous cakes and was a fun companion. My condolences to her family and friends. Sharon Youngblood
Pat and Alan will be greatly missed. Our times together at the high school reunions, Salado trips, and had just started the Friday night a month at ElFenix dinners will not be the same without Pat. A sweet friend and a very dear Christian Lady who lived her christianity will always be in my heart. My deepest sympathy to the Wilbourn family at this difficult time. Linda Moore, Mesquite, TX
I had the pleasure of knowing Pat in High School. We visited over the years at reunions and birthday celebrations. My prayers and condolences to her family. They will be missed by all her SOC friends.
Ruth Johnson Duncan
My heart is so sad - Pat was so sweet - I'm glad to have been her friend in high school and also be with her in our reunion gettogethers... Prayers to her family and rememberances from all who knew her. She's not gone..... just gone ahead.
Pidge Parrino
My deceased husband, Curtice Veach, and myself went to high school with Pat and in recent years had renewed our acquaintance through reunion meetings. When Curtice and I married in 2004 Pat, along with others, threw a party for Curtice and I and Pat baked the most wonderful Wedding cake. We were so surprised and thrilled with it and she even put wedding bells on top which I still have sitting in a curio cabinet and see them multiple times a day. I always think about Pat when I see them. I know she and her husbank and mother are in the best possible care.
What a shock to learn of Alan and Pat's homegoing. I enjoyed singing with Alan in choir for a number of years while he sang with us. We also enjoyed his leadership of the bell choir and his trumpet playing. In fact, we enjoyed his trumpet playing in our services a week before he was called home. And Pat made beautiful wedding cakes for both of our children. We will miss them a lot and will be praying for the family left behind during this time of loss.
Ken Zook
I will miss my friend and neighbor SOOOO very much! My parties will never be the same with out her cakes and I will never glide as gracefully across the floor without her instruction. I will never drive past Weaver Street without thinking of her. She will be one of the first angels I look for in Heaven. My deepest sympathy to all of Pat, Alan and Mrs. Nelson's family. You are in my prayers.
Linda MacDonald
I am so saddened to hear about this. I just talked to Pat about a lunch for the ladies in January. Trey, you know we have known each other since grade school and loved and respected her. Also your grandmother Kay who was my Mom's best friend. I know they are all in Heaven and we will be praying for your family.
Love,
Pat Kirk Poland
Our family feels the loss of Alan and Pat. Alan taught John trumpet lessons for two months. I had prayed for over a year for a teacher that would be a godly influence and have musical expertize. We appreciated going to their house for lessons. Pat showed James how to play with the blind cat, an indication of their love for people and animals. They were teachers of our Sunday School class. They really encouraged me because they were willing to dialogue with my children. They were thinkers and not only knowledgeable about God's Word, they loved Him and because of that, they cared for peopole. That is a rarity in this world. We were looking forward to more time together. What a comfort that there is no question about where they are in eternity and some day we won't be bound by time! We're looking forward to seeing them again.
Praying for their families,
The Gilbert Family
Pat has made her delicious cakes for almost every family event of ours for over 8 years. She was an amazing person who never knew a stranger. My husband, George, had the privilege of playing with Alan in the Mansfield Wind Symphony. He was an inspiration to him. Pat and Alan are an inspiration to us. I hope that our love will shine just like theirs did until their last day with us. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Wilbourn and Nelson families. I pray that you take comfort in knowing that they are still together dancing in the heavens with our Lord.
Fondly,
George and Cristina Hernandez
I didn't know Alan or Pat in our youth, but I know for sure that when my time on this earth is over, I will meet them in a much better place. There is a time to mourn, but we must focus on celebrating their life; their life on this old earth and their life in Heaven.
God bless each and everyone of you.
David Krupka
I only knew Pat as my "Cake Lady". She made cakes for my wedding, my kids first birthdays, my birthdays and the numerous showers and parties thay I have had. She was apart of all the monumental phases through my life and others through her wonderful God-given talent of baking. There will never be anyone who will be able to duplicate her Hummingbird cake that was so delicious!
My heart goes out to the family for their loss.
Tamara Hydock
It's hard to know where to start . . . but when you meet someone like Pat, you just know you will be friends for life. A rare treasure and gift! Plus there was Alan ~ her lead man :) and soon after meeting him we knew why. He was such a gentleman, a genuinely fun and delightful person to be around. Pat made three of the four wedding cakes for our grown children as well as the anniversary cake for my in-laws (Asa & Billie Holleman) . . . . plus a few more :) All just perfect as well as delicious, by the way. Both she & Alan gave us a crash dance course (pun intended ~ on our part) just before our youngest got married in September of this year! As a result, (I'm sure recognizing we needed MORE help) they invited us to the Tower Club where they enjoy alongside many others ~ live music in which to dance with! This took place on my birthday, which was (by the way) the way my husband couldn't say NO :) While we don't attend Faith Bible church at this time, we did for many years, which is how I met Pat ~ continuing on in their ladies bible study. I then became a part of a Thin Within bible study Pat began several years back and was still attending when God called them home. They were a beautiful couple, the best friends and examples of what a Christian marriage should be, the best hosts (opening their home to both friends & strangers alike), always giving of themselves whenever asked, truly a rare find . . . . and we were privileged to call them our friends & we are so thankful for that! Our prayers are with the family as well as those who held them close in heart. I wouldn't be surprised if Alan was there @ the gate in heaven holding it open for Pat ~ just like the gentleman he was. We'll miss you guys sooooo much!
Heaven ~ we'll see you there!
Chris & Denise Holleman
With tears of sorrow, I extend my prayers and deepest sympathy to the family, friends and acquaintances of Pat, Alan and Kay. We will all miss them very much. Pat and Alan truly lived a life of love and service to others and I believe the world is a better place because of them. The trips to Salado, Class Reunions, and the World of Dance will never be the same without them.
Sincerely,
Barbara Hamilton
I enjoyed knowing Pat in high dchool, at reunions and birthday parties. The times we spent together at Salado will always be remembered as special and Oh those cakes.
Just s week sgo I e-mailed a prayer request to Pat, and now cherish her response thst "every time God brings your grandson's name to mind I will be praying for him". And I know she meant it
I will be praying that the families will be so surrouded by God's Grace and the knowledge that Pat,Alan and Pat's mom, Kay are with the Lord,
that they will be sustaned during this time of intense grief.
I know Pat from Bible Study Fellowship. I remember how much she loved to sing the hymns. She found the words beautiful and appreciated being able to sing every verse. I have tried to remember if she had a favorite, but I think she loved every single one.
Sandi Holzwarth, Cedar Hill
I am saddened for you family, but am also rejoicing knowing without a shadow of a doubt that your loved ones are with the Lord. Pat and I served in BSF together. What a worker! She was dedicated and sincere in her following of the Lord. I have learned many things from hearing her honesty & in depth study of God's word revealed in each lesson. I watched Alan and Pat dance together and witnessed their great passion, grace & respect for one another!
I will miss you dearly my friend. BSF will not be the same without your warm welcome and sweet smile! I am clinging to our recent study of John and the revelation that believers do not see death. You and your loved ones have entered into the presence and eternal peace of The Great I AM!
for me, wow. They affected my life more than i thought. I have had alot of time to reflect on them and really come up with some things that i didn't even think of or attributed to them.
The first thing is that, being one of devin's good friends, basically most the wisdom that is shared by him has come from his parents or atleast a little portion of it has.
Allan tought me alot about fly fishing and to always question what is actually going on in the world, he also taught me how to wiggle out of a conversation that has been going on to long and one that was also over my head! lol.
Pat was an amazing woman and it isn't so much the things that i learned from her but the way she presented herself and the way she always welcomed me home. From making icing to the look she probably gave many of us when we acted stupid or got a little obnoxious, i won't ever forget her looks.
The last thing i want to mention is about Pat. i don't know how many people know this but Pat had started to lose her passion for baking cakes. It was getting a little stressful for her and she wasn't sure how much longer she was going to persue that venue. When i think of these past couple of years and what has transpired within the family and with friends it came clear to me that this was God's Timing and he had placed things in motion long ago that led up to them going home.
I ofcourse wish condolences for trey and his family, for Kelly and gabe, and for devin and tiffany. i also wan't to express to everybody that this to shall pass and we will remeber with Happiness thier time here but more importantly re will rejoice in joy at where they are now!
I have many memories of Pat and Alan over the years. Pat and I have been involved in several bible studies together, bunko, BSF,bell choir,and several social functions. I remember when Pat had several of us over while she patiently tried to teach us how to decorate all these individual cakes for a church valentine banquet. I came away with a whole new respect for cake decorating.
I also enjoyed having Alan as the bell choir director and listening to his trumpet solo's at church. I know Steve really enjoyed accompanying him on the piano. I can only imagine the music of praise Alan is preforming before Christ Himself. I also have the memory of Alan when we were able to go to Israel. Alan was so determined to find a shofar at the right price. It took a while but he was successful. What is so amazing to me is what we (with Pat)covered in our study of Jn. 8 where Jesus explains to His listeners about His time has not yet come. When I think about the gift of time God has given us, I think of Pat being so productive with that gift. She spent her time giving to God and giving to others. Also, Jesus reminds us concerning believers not ever seeing death-closing our eyes here and opening them in heaven. It can't get any better than that.
Pat and Alan we will miss you terribly. Till we meet again.
Jan Leonard
I only really knew Alan and Pat briefly, at least only for the past few months. Alan and I attended a morning Bible / share group. Pat led the Thin Within Group. Her influence in that group was widespread. My first taste of her cake mastery was just weeks ago at a wedding reception. Both Alan and Pat served the Lord where their talents were best used. I learned that from them - to give others what God has given to you.
There are no coincidences. They are what God allows. I think it not a coincident that Alan and Pat were taken home to be with the Lord together. I know of very few couples who go home together. This was a testimony of their great love for each other. I believe God gave them both this gift of not having to mourn for the other. It made a lot of sense to me and showed me another example of how God loves us and has a plan for each of us- during our lives, and at the end. What a GREAT GOD we serve!!
My deepest condolences on your loss. I knew your mom and dad through ballroom dancing. They so loved to dance and did it so gracefully. It was a true joy to watch them perform their showcase dance this past November. They were elegant; your dad all in black, and your mom in electric blue satin. They felt so proud and I am so glad that I got the chance to tell them what a wonderful performance they did. There are a couple of wonderful photos of them performing their showcase dance on the following website www.usadancedallas.org
You can find their pictures in the section called: Nov Showcase photos. I know they are dancing in heaven now. They will truely be missed.
Maxine Smith
Alan and Pat were two of the most colorful and loving people you could ever hope to know. My son, Christopher and I loved them and cherish the many years we were blessed to be a part of their lives. What a fine example they set for their children and my son.
Kay, was a spitfire. There is no doubt that from her, Pat gained her zest for living life to the fullest.
We will miss you, beautiful friends.
Dale Evans and Christopher Ricketts
The first time I had heard Pat's name was when I was helping with a friend's wedding several years ago and they brought in 2 of the most fabulous cakes I had ever seen! Not only delicious, but spectacular looking....I hated to cut them! I then had the privledge of meeting Pat shortly after that @ BSF. There were many things I loved about Pat: I loved that she was generous....one year around Valentine's day she made every one of our 35 BSF leader's a beautiful little heart shaped cake! :D I loved that Pat loved to laugh about life and that she was able to be honest! I loved that she had a serious side too and was totally committed to the Lord! I loved that Pat, although extremely talented in many areas, was humble about her gifts and the things she did for the Lord! I loved that Pat had a lot of passion for life and used that passion to help other people! I have thought of Pat many times this week, as I have been studying John 9: Jesus said, "We must work the works of Him who sent Me; as long as it is day; night is coming, when no man can work." Pat was a faithful servant of the Lord, for she did what God called her to do during her "day"...the Crisis Pregnancy center, the God centered weight loss group, her work @ her church, BSF, the legacy she has left raising children who profess Christ, and even her ballroom dancing (Pat had said she & Alan were wanting to add God's word to the dance lessons!)Pat worked hard for the Lord, always looking for ways to use all that He had given her... making the most of the time and opportunities God placed before her to reach other's for Jesus in whatever way she could! Our hearts @ BSF are greived by the loss of our faithful friend Pat, but not as ones who greive with out hope. Thank you Trey, for honoring your Parents and Grandmother in this beautiful tribute to them and allowing us to honor them as well. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Pam Moon
I am very saddened to hear about the tragedy. I came to know Pat as the cake lady-- I would refer bride's to her for their wedding cakes. Pat was a wonderful person to work with and I am thankful to have known her. She will be deeply missed.
My sincere condolences go to the family.
Frances Reed
Distinct Elegance Bridal Boutique
Pat, I can still hear you laughing when we talked about how we might manage to continue bunko in our old age! We came up with many ideas of how to alter the game to accommodate those changing needs, and perhaps my fondest memories of you are those nights laughing histerically at bunko....but your legacy is SOOO much more: I am impacted by your life and how you lived it. You were able to counsel at CPC, lead in BSF, lead bible studies, run your cake business, be involved in music, entertain people in your home, and teach ballroom dance with Alan, all the while leading people to the Lord....and you said you just didn't have time to do all the things you wanted to do...I am confident that you have heard the words, "Well done, good and faithful servant." Dance in heaven til we meet again, Bet Kirkland
I never saw Pat without a smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye. I last talked with her in July when she was planning the annual "Girls' Weekend" in Salado. As always, she was excited and anxious to see everyone again. She will be missed by all of us, and my heart and thoughts are with her family.
Pepper Smith
Wrapping our arms around you with many prayers during these tough times...you are in our thoughts daily...hold tight to each other.
Wayne and Kendall Sablatura and family
Celina, TX
My heart was deeply saddened by the loss of Pat and Alan. I have known them several years through Faith Bible Church and through the Crisis Pregnancy Center. Alan was such a gentleman and a gifted musician. We were honored to have him play his trumpet at our daughter's wedding and he added so much to the music ministry at church. I especially loved the way he loved his wife--it was so evident in the way he even looked at her. Over the years I have enjoyed many of Pat's delicious cakes! She made my daughter's wedding cake and I have seen her graciously give many cakes away on many occasions as a gift of love. Pat was a wonderful, spirited and talented person. Every day I saw her at the pregnancy center she always had an encouraging word and her smile was contagious! She was an anointed counselor to the women who came through the center and believe me every one of them heard the gospel from her before they left! Many, many made decisions for Christ--Pat had many treasures waiting for her when she entered Heaven's gates. My prayers are with all of Pat and Alan's family and I know that Heaven is a sweeter place now that they are there.
Lyn Ott
John 14:27
I am a fellow cake decorator and former neighbor of Pat and Richard and had the wonderful opportunity to help Pat one weekend. I not only learned "cake" things from her, but I got to experience her warmness and generosity. Whenever I would call her for items or if she called me for something she needed, there was always a smile coming through the phone (if you know what I mean). You could sense her happiness and warmness through the phone!! I thank the Lord for allowing me to meet truly some of the nicest people on earth! It warms my heart to know that they are with the Lord; so, we that know Him, know that we will see them again! We are praying for you constantly that you will experiece His perfect peace and comfort.
Jeff and LaCracha Holley
Cedar Hill
Oh Kelly, I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. From what I have learned about your family I hope you can take some comfort knowing they are with their Lord. But I also know your grief must be almost unbearable.I love you and will be praying for you in this most trying time of your life. I love you. Diann Buie. 972-286-4728. Call me anytime if I can help
It's been years since I've seen or spoken to anyone in the Wilbourn family, but this world's loss of Alan & Pat is apparent to me even from afar.
There was a time in my life that they were like a second set of parents to me, and I will never forget the lessons they taught me, whether knowingly or unknowingly. There were times that we didn't get along, times I thought I would never fully agree with (or understand?) their points of view. In hindsight though, their influence on my life was purely for the good and I would not be who I am without it.
It brings me such joy to hear how full their last years were and how much love surrounded them. I'm saddened to know I won't see them on this earth again, but how wonderful it must have been to spend Christmas with the Father! My heart is not breaking for them; they are in the presence of God...but for Devin, Kelly, Trey, and all of the Wilbourn family and friends, my heart goes out to you all and I'm lifting you in prayer. We will see them again someday!
Pat and I served together on the Administrative Team for Bible Study Fellowship. I always admired that she used her talents to help others. She was truly a servant of God. I know she will be missed. Martha Vittrup Duncanville, TX
We didn't know Pat very well, nor Kay at all, but Alan was a true Christian gentleman. He was a fine example as a role model for all his students. He will be missed. Our best to their family and may the Lord comfort them in this terrible tragedy.
Pat was our dedicated BSF Secretary for the Dallas DeSoto DW class. We had the opportunity to have lunch on our last class day of the year December 16th at one of her favorite restaurants Ojeda’s. As we left, she gave me a big big hug and told me “You are doing a great job as our Class Administrator” and I told her she was doing a great job too. My gift to her was a little plaque stating “Love never fails”. She was so happy to receive it. Pat had much love in her heart for the Lord and for our BSF class. I will truly miss her coming through the doors with her black rolling case full of records. Her rollers would make so much noise as she came down the halls, we would say “Here comes Pat”,the next thing you would see was this big smile approaching you.
Jo McGowan, Class Administrator, Dallas DeSoto DW class
Trey and Malea,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know your parents and grandmother, but I know from reading all of the messages that I missed out. Please let everyone's testimony be of comfort to you during this time. You're in my prayers.
Love and prayers,
Dawn Turner
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Pat and Alan from Hillcrest Baptist Church. I remember your Dad whenever he played in the orchestra at Hillcrest,and I believe your Mom worked with the children or youth in our church. I also attended BSF at the time she was attending BSF. I can't imagine the loss you must feel right now, and I pray that the Lord will continue to give you comfort and peace and bring joy to you again. Your mother always had a smile on her face. They are dancing for the Lord now. I didn't know your grandmother but I believe I may have met her once at church. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your family memebers, and you are in our prayers. I remember Pat and Alan for their kindness to our daughters, Corrie & Laura.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss. I remember every time I saw Mrs. Wilbourn she would give me a hug and always ask what I was up to and constantly ask me about A.J. I remember retreats she would go on with the youth groups and deep conversations me and her would have about relationships, life, etc... When I told her I was engaged she offered to make my wedding cake at no charge and to give me and my fiancee a few dance lessons.
I will always Mr. Wilbourn's looks when he saw me doing something crazy (which considering they both knew me since I was in the 3rd grade was constant), he was would always give me something to think about whether it be political, Biblical, or about life.
I will always miss their kind spirits and their Christmas Open Houses.
Ya'll are in my prayers.
Amanda Rowe~ Duncanville, Tx
What two wonderful and joyous people. Me and my husband Isaiah haven't known Pat and Alan for long...but we did get to spend some time with them. Devin and Tiffeny are dear friends of ours and we can just see how the Lord has his wings wrapped around them giving them comfort.
Pat and Alan invited Isaiah and I over for a lovely home cooked meal some time last year. I really enjoyed talking with Devin's mom and was in awe at how knowledgable Devin's father was.
Pat was even so kind enough to make my 30th birthday cake for me...and she made my favorite cake too! (red velvet...yummy!)
May we all take comfort in knowing they have now stepped into the Lord's arms taking in the great feast. Just imagine all the people from history they've been meeting! Imagine all the books and records they probably have access to. What a glorious day to spend Christmas with our dear Savior.
Dev and Tiff Riff...
You guys have no idea the way you've inspired us during this time. We've told you before and we'll never stop...but we love you brother and sister. We love your kindness, your encouragement, your sense of humor, your intelligence, your love for each other, and your love for our Father. You are clearly your father's son.
~~Alicia & Isaiah Crary
I knew Pat from BSF. The thing that came to mind when I received the news was her face with a "BIG" smile. I never walked up to Pat and didn't see her smiling and greeting people. She made you feel welcomed. I will miss her smile here on earth but I know that she is smiling with the Lord and oh what a priviledge it is to be able to smile with the Lord.
~Yevette Carter
Our AMAZING Kelly,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you. You're the most amazing person we have ever met and we wish there were some way we could take away the pain. You are the strongest chick we have ever met and we know that you will make it through this unbelievably tough time. We love you soooo much!!
Love,
Billi and Cristina
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. We can all rejoice that Pat and Alan are together with Christ, along with her mother, your grandmother.
God is good and this was His plan for them. Pat was my partner in the bell choir and I was sad when she said she would not return to play this year. I miss her but my prayers are with the families left behind. "Rejoice in the Lord, and again I say rejoice" we will meet again in heaven.
From Janet Nye:
It was very shocking to learn about Pat, Alan and Kay yesterday. I played horn in Alan's brass quintet for awhile and currently teach lessons in Midlothian with him weekly. I wish I was in town, I would volunteer to play for the memorial service!
Alan embodied enthusiasm for life and God! He spoke with fondness every week about dancing with Pat and we had fun conversations about God, marriage, playing brass instruments and teaching. He was very patient and wise in his approach to his students. Alan lived with such purpose and devotion that it's as if he knew he didn't have long on this earth. In fact, none of us do but most of us don't live like it. He really lived like the end was near and this will be his legacy in my mind. "Show me O Lord, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting is my life." Psalm 39:3-5
I am thankful to have known Alan and look forward to meeting Pat and Kay one day.... soon.
Trey, Kelly and Devin please know that I have been praying and thinking of all of you.
I, as everyone else, have experienced the mixed feelings of tragedy; tears for the loss of such God-loving people and tears because we know that they no longer have the cares of this world and are rejoicing and praising God in heaven.
I had the chance to visit with Pat last week after so many years. It was just like time stood still. She told me about the ballroom dancing and filled me in on past years. it was so wonderful to talk with Pat again.
Do you remember the Christmas I read the Velveteen Rabbit to the family?
Regretfully, Lou and I will not be able to attend the services.
With all our love and sympathy,
Lou and Patricia Antonelli
Mount Pleasant, Tx
Passion and Sweetness are two words come to mind when I remember Pat and Alan...
...both had a passion for whatever they got involved in - be it cake decorating or counseling young women in difficult situations or praise music or positively influencing my son, Gerald, a friend of Devin's.
...like Pat's cakes, Pat and Alan exhibited a sweetness of spirit that touched and brightened those that had the priviledge to know them.
May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Terry Robinson
I visited in the Wilbourn home several times back in the 1960's while a teenager friend with Pam. Alan was always one of the most polite and respectful teens. Much later in life as I volunteered with the Midlothian band, I was fortunate to run into him again as he taught trumpet lessons. What fine man he was, indicative of the raising he and Pam, Kathy, and Brian had. What a great Christian testimony. Ours prayers will be with your family as you release these precious loved ones to Heaven.
To say that Pat and Alan are in a "better place, doesn't take away the grief and the sorrow that everyone is experiencing. I have known Pat for more 15 years and have called on her to make many cakes. She was truly amazing and one of the sweetest ladies that I've have ever known.
I knew Pat from BSF. She loved her children and her family. You are a living testimony of her faith. Her smile, her hugs and her welcoming spirit for everyone are what I will remember about Pat. She loved the Lord and loved serving Him. What a blessing to have know her.
Alan, you will be greatly missed. I will miss our conversations about fly fishing, as well as the useful tips you would give to me. I regret that we never got the opportunity to "wet a hook" together, as we had discussed a trip to Lake Taneycomo many times. Thank for the flies that you gave me to take to Beaver's Bend. I will think of you every time that I open my fly box. May you rest forever in the arms of your Saviour.
Our prayers are with all of the family. I have happy memories with Pat since the 3rd grade and through High School. I loved Pat's sunny personality and disposition. She and Alan were good balances for each other. We had not gotten to see each other in several years and it was our loss. We do know we shall see them later with Christ.
My prayers are with all the family at this difficult time. I worked with Alan at Crow Elementary when he was the band instructor. What a GREAT man he was and how he had such a way of encouraging and motivating kids to do their best. Never did I see Alan without a smile on his face. I particularly remember talking to him right before his retirement about his fishing plans and other activities that he would do once he was retired. He was so excited to tinker in all of his little hobbies. What a great man he was and he will surely be missed by me and others at Crow Elementary in Arlington..
Lisa Bell (third grade teacher)
I was saddened to hear about this loss but know Alan and Pat had strong trust in Jesus and are with Him safe forever. I have enjoyed Alan's comments in Sunday school class. He was such a serious and scholarly student of the Bible. I enjoyed his talk on inductive Bible study, which he led by example of digging so deeply into the Word. I will miss them and will look forward to the reunion in heaven.
Dear Trey and Malea, Heather, Harli, Luke, Jaxon, and Beckett,
We are praying for you. We love you. Heaven is real.
Liisa for Ted too, and the children Jonathan, Collin, Teah, and Timothy
Your parents were really unique people, and I appreciated knowing them. It's a really nice thought of seeing them dancing in Heaven. God bless you kids, and keeping their memories fresh with your children.
Their work is done...they have finished the race...they have kept the faith...and now, the crown of righteousness, which the Lord Himself will give to them.
My heart goes out to those who are grieving. I am praying for you.
Barbara Lee Isaacson
Dear Loved ones of Pat
I never met Alan, however the three years I knew Pat left a memorable impression on me in which I will never forget. She was one of the most giving people I've ever met. She managed to have time for everyone, I don't know how she did that. I serve as a counselor at Sound Options, where Pat did also. She led numerous ladies to the Lord and talked several young ladies out of having an abortion. She was always equally excited for each of those celebrations. We will all miss her dearly however, we are left with her presence in our lives forever.
Fondest regards : Velinda Buchanan
Trey, Malea, Kelly , Tiffeny and Devin . Thank you for sharing your parents with us over the years. They will forever be missed by our family. Devin ,
I am so proud of the way you spoke at the service and how you blessed many people with your words of encouragement. Kelly , you have your mother's smile and although you were hurting you were gracious and kind to everyone yesterday. Trey, You are a man after God's own heart and that is evident. Malea, You have such a gentle peace and calming spirit that you bring to your family. You were a blessing to me yesterday. Tiffeny , you were so kind and thoughtful in all you did yesterday.You are truly a reflection of Devin's Love for you. I know Pat and Alan would have been so proud of each of you! May God Bless you and keep you and make his face shine down upon you and give you peace.
Love, Jeff , Grace , Alicia and Zack Fox
Celina , Texas
I didn't get a chance to know Pat and Alan very well. You could see in their face the love they had for the Lord, one another, and everyone that they touched.
A little over a year ago I had a accident and broke my ankle. I didn't think I had a ride to the Dr's and called the church to see if anyone would be able to take me. It wasn't even 5 min and Pat called to say she would come and take me. As it turned out my daughter-in-law was able to take me. When I called Pat to tell her I had a ride after all she almost sounded disappointed that she wouldn't be needed after all.
Alan's love for music was so evedent, in the way he would expain things in choir, and the passion he showed when he would play his horn. I can almost see him in Heaven now making sure that Gaberial has things right for when he blows his horn to announce the Lord's return.
The couple of times that I was able to see them dance, they make it look so effortless. And you could see the joy they had at being in each other's arms. I believe that the Lord took them together because they would be so lost with out the other, God loved them so much he didn't want that pain for them.
I love you, and will miss you.
Kitty Peltzman
Kuna, ID (formally at Faith Bible Church)
Dear Devon, Kelly, and Trey...I am so sorry for your loss, but grateful to know they are in Heaven with our Lord. I was not able to attend the memorial service, so I am grateful you posted this beautiful tribute. Indeed, Pat and Alan did not miss the dance.
I worked with Pat for more than 10 years and she was a tremendous influence in my spiritual life by her gentle urging to follow Christ and an amazing example of what it means to love the Lord with all your heart. Filled with His love that spilled over to everyone around her. Her joyous laugh, her beautiful eyes, and her warm smile remain in my thoughts as I remember this precious woman and look forward to seeing her again in Heaven.
I always enjoyed talking to Alan. He, too, exhibited a devotion to Christ through his clear logic and love of God's truth. What a dear sweet man of integrity and spritual strength.
Grace and truth...dancing together with the King of all Grace and Truth.
Devon, Kelly, Trey...May our Lord continue to ease your grief with His gentle strength and unending love as you walk through these difficult days. He is there and someday you will reunite with your parents and then no one will take away your joy.
With love,
Angie White
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